What's Your Aging Mindset?

In an age-obsessed culture like we have in the US, it is hard to find a comfort level with the idea of growing older.  The beauty industry makes this obvious for women, and more recently for men, but there are more subtle or not so subtle messages we hear from our friends and from many health care professionals.  I am in my seventies now, and  having practiced focused self-care for many years, it influences the way I regard my health and that of my holistic health clients. 

Health care professionals are given the wrong name, in my opinion.  They are not health care professionals; they are sick care professionals.  The focus is much more on what’s going wrong than what you may be doing right, and the link is often with your age.

On my most recent visit to a primary care physician, she had a new medical assistant. At the beginning of the intake she spoke to me like an adult.  She took my blood pressure and weight and asked me what medications I was taking, I told her none, and she asked me again to be sure. She turned to input the data she had collected, and in doing so apparently looked at my age, which was 72.  When she next spoke to me, she spoke in a tone one might use when speaking to a five year old.  The shift was clear; I was now an old person who needed to be spoken to like a child. 

Health care professionals  convey little hope or provide few suggestions as to how growing older can be a positive, successful experience.  Of course, being realistic, we all know there is a beginning and an end to our lives.  The big question is how long and how well.  

Going out with friends is another situation where if one is not careful, the conversation can devolve into descriptions of aches and pains, medications and surgeries.  It’s not that these things don’t occur, but should they take up social headspace and dominate the conversation?

I say the topics might be family news, new interests, favorite books or films, favorite healthy meals, travel plans, home moves or renovations, of favorite websites.  Keep your brain active with new ideas and expressing them to others is healthy and stimulating. Tune into positive posts like you find here and on sixtyandme.com and Zestful Aging’s podcast.

What are you doing to keep yourself positive and forward-thinking?  Rather than dwelling on the past or dreading the future, consider all the possibilities that lay before you. Time passes quickly.   Make it  time well spent. 

A Sobering Message on American Health and What To Do about It

If you've been following me you know I am passionate in my belief that we each have an innate ability to heal and be well.  In the US we have the most expensive health care system of all developed nations but by no means the healthiest. Bloomberg news reported the proportion of Americans dying from coronavirus infections is the highest in the developed world. It’s time to develop a better concept of health care - one with a focus on wellness, not sickness. You’ll see from the list that follows how poorly the US ranks despite spending more money on health care per capita than any other nation.

Here are the numbers as of February 19, 2021 

US              493,138

Brazil           243,457

Mexico       178,108

India           151,111

UK               119,614

Italy               94,887

France         83,542

Russia         81,048

Germany    67,249

Spain           66,704

What about Life Expectancy?

An equally important list to look at is the overall lifespan of Americans in comparison to other nations. We rank an abysmal 37th on the list of industrialized countries. Even more sobering is the latest news that suggests we’ve lost a year in our lifespan due to covid 19 deaths. 

As a health and wellness coach, it has been extremely frustrating to me over the past year that those with the most public voices with regard to Covid 19 speak only about the virus and the vaccine. There’s been not a whisper about self-care in the midst of all the fear based reports. 

What is Wrong with The American Health Care System?

You might say it starts with the misleading name. The real focus of the American health care system is treating illness.  As it stands today it should be called The Sick Care System.  The US spends more per capita on pharmaceuticals and medical care than any other developed nation. You only need to look at the approach to Covid 19 to recognize we as a nation focus on sickness, not wellness.  We need to make a major shift by making wellness our first priority. And we need to do it not only for ourselves but for the beleaguered front line providers who are constrained by the rules of the health care system. 

Defining Wellness

In my opinion, wellness should not be limited to health care screenings. They may have value in creating a baseline, indicating where some improvements are needed.  For instance, a screening of your blood levels, lipid levels, your heart rhythms, muscle tone, etc. and your nutrient levels could help you know what aspects of your lifestyle need improvement. From there you could develop some health goals that are designed to build on health.  Unfortunately in the US health care system, doctors are given little time to advise people on making lifestyle changes except in very general terms. More often because of the limited time with a person, doctors may prescribe a medication as a quick fix to suppress symptoms, This approach does not lead to lifestyle changes that need to be made.

A Better Message for Covid and Wellness

We can’t keep looking at a virus or heart disease or Type II diabetes or even Alzheimer’s as the threat.  The true threat is lack of information and guidance on how to be healthy.  The US health care system does not do that. It focuses on which medication or procedure will “fight” that virus or disease. Its focus is on correcting or treating instead of preventing.  We must shift to a wellness based health care system if we want to be well. 

The Basics

Have you had fewer colds or flu this year?  The worthwhile message we’ve received from CDC, FDA and news outlets is threefold:  wear a mask, wash your hands, and practice social distancing. Overall, people have been healthier by following these practices.  What these information sources have failed to discuss is prevention through lifestyle practices that should be a part of every day, pandemic or not.  I describe them in 5 sections:

1. Eat healthy foods. Start with simple whole foods, fruits and vegetables, whole grains, nuts and seeds, legumes, with high quality seafood and meat. To benefit you these foods must be free of additives and chemical preservatives, synthetic hormones and antibiotics. Ideally that means organic whenever possible. Add clean water and herbal teas.

2. Get enough sleep. Research shows seven to eight hours is a good marker for adults.

3. Move. The tendons that let you stretch and the muscles that lift you up weaken if they aren’t used. Try the 20 minute rule and get up every 20 minutes, if even for a short stretch. Get continuous movement in some way every day, ideally outdoors where you are breathing in fresh air.

4. Manage your stress. Unwanted stress is known to suppress your immune system. If you need help, try a simple meditation. I created a short one for anyone who doesn’t feel like they can meditate but would like to give it a try.

5. Using your baseline bloodwork, consider taking a very limited number of supplements to give your body a boost. Right now, several studies show the importance of adequate D levels in preventing serious covid illness. D cannot be absorbed from the sun in the northeast US between November and March, so most of us here need a little extra help. Metagenics is my preferred manufacturer and you can learn more about them here.

I’m Overweight. Should I Diet to Be Well?

In the US, 70% of adults are overweight and 40% are obese.  We know that for most people being overweight is a health risk, but we also know that 85% of diets fail.  They fail because they do not establish long term lifestyle practices.  Many incorporate restrictive calorie counting  that slows metabolism and creates stress and hunger.  When you learn to eat properly you will not be hungry. Your body will be getting the nutrients you need and your brain will work to adjust your appetite mechanism because it knows you are getting enough nutrients. Healthy eaters come in all sizes; not all are slender, but it is rare for a healthy eater to be obese.  

Our fear-based, sick focused system is not working.  It’s time to envision a better way for you and for the future of our country. How do you approach your health care and what will keep you healthy? 

Resources:

Food Becomes You - Simple Steps for Lifelong Wellness  my playbook  for making healthy food prep easy 

Food Rules by Michael Pollan - a simply written rule book that tells it all 

Health Assurance for All - Inside American Health Care Michael Metzler   - how it fails its citizens

Sugar Detox Adventures

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